Abandonment issue
I just learn it the hard way. But this always make me self conscious about the new friend i make along the way. Because of the friend that i known for ages that i would do anything for that i thought more like sisters than friends. Suddenly start drifted apart and wont talk to me. Then i know that she basically hates my gut because of some rumors says behind my back.
Its never about people who know you the longest. It who know you for you and be there for you. With that being said my love life is not sunshine and happy times either.
He. A coworkers change to friends. Then all of the sudden i notice something different. As soon as he sees me all of his attention goes to me. usually his footsteps would be heard from miles. But when i am alone in our work place he would just came out of nowhere. Without me even realized it. Te would tease and get nervous and super tense talking to me. It is noticeable though.
You maybe thinking that i am mean for saying this. But i at that time already grasp that he like me for some reason. But i ignored it thinking that i must have mistaken his friendly manner for thinking that he like me. Then when he unanimously confess to my work besties she then confirm to me that she notice that way earlier. I said no way la.
I'm just going to treat him like a good friend. then he just had to blab his mouth to another coworker, and that guy text me telling me about it. Oh god. To make it short after being sick of beating around the bush i finally ask him up front is he had anyone special right now.
"I can see you look bright. Like someone in love.".
"You really want to know? If you do then i would tell you.
And i was like. Yeah i want to know. Hence why i ask you about it, duh.
And there he confessed to me. Saying that he never felt this way before. Not with anyone. He was so ''in love'' that he proposed to me that time.
I am so shocked that i said back to him that i can't decide to accept him nor reject him but all i can say is if he is sincere and mean what he says, he really should just come and sees my parents. The day he confess to me was three day after i got really bad heart broken. But that aside, and now after two years he suddenly stop texting me. And it takes 2 day to reply back to me is when i noticed something was off, i looked at his what app profile and saw his status. at that time i know, like a hunch, that it was over. Then few days latter i went out with my best friends and out of the blue she said that she saw him going out with her cousin and the way she sees it it is a date.
God i hate him, how can he! with all the sweet word and he send we songs not just a few, i could create playlist from all the song he sent to me. With all of that how you expect i would feel. At the least i feel like, yeah. At least i have him. He is so nice, a good guy, he wont break my heart, he would listen to my rant if i had any, make silly jokes that get me laugh, he did notice the change i had when i drown in my own anxiety and depression, we did go out once or twice but that it. I hate to be cliche but i wont keep promise if i know i can't keep it.
At that moment i blocked his what app and last few weeks is when i delete his number. I don''t give a damn if he decided to walk away. Because it always happen anyway. It always happen that way. People always will leave. Even when they say they wouldn't.
Its never about people who know you the longest. It who know you for you and be there for you. With that being said my love life is not sunshine and happy times either.
He. A coworkers change to friends. Then all of the sudden i notice something different. As soon as he sees me all of his attention goes to me. usually his footsteps would be heard from miles. But when i am alone in our work place he would just came out of nowhere. Without me even realized it. Te would tease and get nervous and super tense talking to me. It is noticeable though.
You maybe thinking that i am mean for saying this. But i at that time already grasp that he like me for some reason. But i ignored it thinking that i must have mistaken his friendly manner for thinking that he like me. Then when he unanimously confess to my work besties she then confirm to me that she notice that way earlier. I said no way la.
I'm just going to treat him like a good friend. then he just had to blab his mouth to another coworker, and that guy text me telling me about it. Oh god. To make it short after being sick of beating around the bush i finally ask him up front is he had anyone special right now.
"I can see you look bright. Like someone in love.".
"You really want to know? If you do then i would tell you.
And i was like. Yeah i want to know. Hence why i ask you about it, duh.
And there he confessed to me. Saying that he never felt this way before. Not with anyone. He was so ''in love'' that he proposed to me that time.
I am so shocked that i said back to him that i can't decide to accept him nor reject him but all i can say is if he is sincere and mean what he says, he really should just come and sees my parents. The day he confess to me was three day after i got really bad heart broken. But that aside, and now after two years he suddenly stop texting me. And it takes 2 day to reply back to me is when i noticed something was off, i looked at his what app profile and saw his status. at that time i know, like a hunch, that it was over. Then few days latter i went out with my best friends and out of the blue she said that she saw him going out with her cousin and the way she sees it it is a date.
God i hate him, how can he! with all the sweet word and he send we songs not just a few, i could create playlist from all the song he sent to me. With all of that how you expect i would feel. At the least i feel like, yeah. At least i have him. He is so nice, a good guy, he wont break my heart, he would listen to my rant if i had any, make silly jokes that get me laugh, he did notice the change i had when i drown in my own anxiety and depression, we did go out once or twice but that it. I hate to be cliche but i wont keep promise if i know i can't keep it.
At that moment i blocked his what app and last few weeks is when i delete his number. I don''t give a damn if he decided to walk away. Because it always happen anyway. It always happen that way. People always will leave. Even when they say they wouldn't.
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